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The Obama Administration announced that Catholics MUST pay into insurance policies that cover abortion, contraception, and sterilization — NO conscience clauses will be accepted.

Cardinal-designate Timothy Dolan released this video: http://bcove.me/ob5itz9v

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I stand for religious freedom and support Cardinal-Designate Dolan and pro-life conscience rights.

President Obama and HHS Secretary Kathleen Sebelius recently announced that Catholics MUST pay into insurance policies that cover abortion, contraception, and sterilization -- NO conscience clauses will be accepted. Dolan said in a statement: “In effect, you and the president are saying we have a year to figure out how to violate our consciences.”

Cardinal-designate Dolan also urged Catholics and the public at large to speak out in protest. “Let your elected leaders know that you want religious liberty and rights of conscience restored and that you want the administration’s contraceptive mandate rescinded,” he said.

We urge you to stand up for life, for the constitution and for religious liberty. Rescind the anti religious liberty mandate.

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An Architectural Guide to the Spiritual Life

Conscience Examination as Church Renovation: An Architectural Guide to the Spiritual Life

Fr. Daniel Scheidt—Queen of Peace Parish—Advent 2011

Baptismal Font [Nov. 27-28] Who am I to the world? What do I witness to be most important? Who am I to Christ? How can I be more peacefully immersed in His life rather than drowning in my own preoccupations?

Confessional [Nov. 29-30] Where in my life do I need to seek God’s mercy? How in my life do I need to share God’s mercy?

Welcome Portal and Doors of the Church [Dec. 1-2] How is my Catholic identity visible in its beauty? How is my life an open invitation for others “outside the Church” to come into the life of the Church and find their true home?

Bell Tower [Dec. 3-4] How do I survey the passing of the world from the highest perspective, the Lord’s perspective, rather than from that of other people, or the media, or advertisers? What melody does the ringing of my life play?

The Nave (Interior Space) and Cruciform Shape of the Church [Dec. 5-6] How do I accommodate the wide variety of people in my life—old friend and potential new friend, those I dislike, the faithful and the lost? Where is my natural family located in my spiritual family?

Foundation and Pillars of the Church [Dec. 7-8] Who are the supports—visible and invisible—of my faith and mission in life? Who from the past, and in the present, supports (or bears the weight!) of my life and work?

Saints in the Stained Glass Windows and Statuary [Dec. 9-10] Who in my family of earth and our extended family of Heaven surrounds my life and radiantly shines with the love of Christ? Who in my solitude most reminds me that I am never alone in the spiritual life?

Bishop’s Cathedra (Seat of Authority) [Dec. 11-12] How do I relate to those above me in authority? To those below me in authority?

Stations of the Cross [Dec. 13-14] How recently has my life most palpably felt like a Way of the Cross? What have been the heaviest burdens and sufferings of my life and mission?

Tabernacle [Dec. 15-16] When are the still points—and where is the contemplative center—of my life with Christ? How, like the Blessed Sacrament, is my life hidden and reserved in Christ?

Pulpit [Dec. 17-18] What place do I make for the contemplative reading and thoughtful proclamation of the Word of God? How does my life—like that of Our Blessed Lady, the Virgin Mary—proclaim the greatness of the Lord?

Side Chapels [Dec. 19-20] How do the various concerns of my life (persistent needs, key events, significant losses, special devotions) find their center arranged around the “High Altar” of my relation and service to Christ?

High Altar [Dec. 21-22] What are the sacrifices in my life that must be united to the Sacrifice of Christ? How does my life and mission bear the form: “Take, this is my body, given up for you”? In other words, how have I like the Living Bread of the Eucharist been “taken,” “blessed,” “broken,” and “given” by Christ?

Hidden Works of Art [Dec. 23-24] What are my acts of love that only God can see? How am I going to make room for Jesus this Christmas?

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An Attitude of Gratitude

As we approach Thanksgiving Day, we have an opportunity to reflect on all the blessing in our lives. It is so easy to focus on all the problems, challenges and disappointments that we encounter in our lives that we can lose perspective on the blessing that God has given us.

I am reminded of this line from a famous poem, “I cried because I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet.”

My mother taught for 12 years in inner city Catholic schools. She was in daily contact with the materially poor. But when my mom asked them how are you doing they would respond, “ I am too blessed to be depressed.” This response always touched me. It reminds me that Jesus says, “ Blessed are the poor, for the Kingdom of God is theirs.”

One of the ways that we can develop an “Attitude of Gratitude” is by remembering daily all the ways that we have been blessed. It is a good practice to think of 5 things each day that we are thankful for. This practice helps us to see with new eyes the blessings in our life. May we remember the words of Meister Eckhart, “If the only prayer you said in your whole life was, ‘thank you,’ that would suffice.”

Giving thanks is at the center of our faith. Even the word Eucharist means thanksgiving. So every time that we celebrate Eucharist we are giving thanks. There is a beautiful songs that says, “Give thanks with a grateful heart Give thanks to the Holy One, Give thanks because He given Jesus Christ, His Son.”

May we all have an Attitude of Gratitude.

Blessing Fr Stefan

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Pray, Hope and Don’t Worry.

Padre Pio,  would often tell people who came to him, “Pray, Hope and Don’t Worry.”  These words give comfort and healing to millions of people.

Padre Pio was born May 25, 1887 in Pietrelcina, Italy, a small town in southern Italy, and he died on Sept 23, 1968.

Who was this man who has inspired millions around the world? And what does  he tell us today?

First of all he was a Capuchin. This means that he was a son of St Francis. When people think of Padre Pio they connect him with many spiritual gifts such as having the stigmata, perfume, prophecy, gifts of healing and bilocation.

If we didn’t know we might think he was a figure out of the middle ages. He was a contemporary saint. He lived thru the first and second World Wars,  the Second Vatican council, and the revolution of the 60’s.

God gave us Padre Pio to remind a skeptical world that God Exist. His supernatural gifts were in stark contrast to modern world rationalism, unbelief.  Padre Pio’s spiritual gifts remind our world that God can still confound the world and its unbelief.

Padre Pio was not a saint because he had such spiritual gifts. Padre Pio was a saint because he was faithful to Jesus and His Church. Padre Pio would hear confession for the thousands of people who came to him from all around the world. He had the gift to read hearts. One of the pilgrims that came to him was none other than John Paul II.

Because tens of thousands came to him from all over the world he had his detractors as well.  On June 1922, restrictions were placed on the public access to him.  He was ordered not to answer letter written to him. From the years 1924-1931 the Vatican issued a statement denying anything supernatural about Padre Pio. On June 9, 1931 Padre Pio was ordered by the Holy See to stop all activities, even hearing confessions, except the mass which was to be celebrated in private. This ban was reversed in early 1933 by the Holy See.

He was a saint because he loved Jesus and His Church. During this time the restrictions were placed on him he never once complained against the Church. He would often say when people pointed out the unfairness of how he was being treated, “we must love the Church She is our Mother.”

Padre Pio reminds us that the Church is our Mother. He reminds us of the value of obedience for the church, even when we have been hurt by the Church.

It is for His love for Jesus and His Church that we call Padre Pio  Saint Padre Pio

Padre Pio Pray for Us – May we Follow the Words of Padre Pio, “Pray, Hope and Don’t Worry.”

Father Stefan Starzynski is the author of Miracles: Healing for a Broken World and the Spiritual Director of the Paul Stefan Home for Mothers

 

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Dear Gabby – Euthanizing and Eternal Life of Pets

Dear Gabby,
What does the Catholic Church teach on euthanizing pets? I will probably have to put down my old dog after years spent with our family. My kids will no doubt ask about whether or not they will see our dog in heaven. What does the Church say about that?
-Greg

 Hi Greg-

So sorry to hear the bad news about your dog. It is certainly difficult to lose a beloved pet and even harder perhaps to make the decision to put it down.

Your questions have both an easy and hard answer. The easy answer comes from the theology of the Church itself. Since animals are not made in the image and likeness of God and do not have immortal souls, it is acceptable to euthanize an animal humanely.

The Catechism of the Catholic Church doesn’t say directly say that pets will or will not go to heaven but it does give some guidance. All living things have a soul (it’s what makes a body alive) and when it does, the soul is separated from the body. In man, the soul is immortal so it keeps on living but the soul of an animal, or plant even, is not immortal and simply ceases to exist once the body perishes. Also, a key difference between humans and animals is that humans have the intelligence to choose God’s will or not, and after death will see God…or not.

Which all leads to the hard answer – how do you tell a child that they won’t see their favorite pet in heaven? Well, first, in heaven we won’t really be concerned with anything besides living in God’s glory (he will be sufficient) and secondly, with God all things are possible so I suppose that whenever we get to heaven, we can ask God for some time with our favorite pet.

For Him,

Gabby

 

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Running On A Prayer

Four months to the date after setting out on January 20th from Oceanside, CA, 28-year-old Jeff Grabosky completed his incredible, solo, and unsupported run across the country by jumping into the Atlantic Ocean on May 20th in Long Island, NY. Jeff didn’t run to raise money for charity but rather took prayer requests and prayed a decade of the Rosary for each intention for 3,700 miles.

St. Michael Society caught up with Jeff to ask him all about his run, the prayers he received, why he felt called to do this and how he knew that the Blessed Mother was watching over him every step of the way.

SMS: You managed to come out of a very difficult situation (the death of his mother and his wife leaving his marriage in the same week) stronger in faith when many others would have given up. How did you do it and what advice can you give to others in similar situations?

Jeff: It is never easy when we face a situation that is difficult and we are unable to understand why it happened. I have personally had a number of occasions where I had to go through what felt like impossible and unfair circumstances. I got through them by staying steadfast in prayer and believing that God had a plan, even if I was never able to see it. I would advise anyone facing a difficulty to turn to God and continue to trust in Him no matter bad our situation may seem and know that He will never abandon you.

SMS: How many intentions do you think you prayed for? What were some of the ones that really touched your heart?

Jeff: I did not keep track of how many I received, but if I had to make a guess, I would say I prayed for approximately three to four thousand intentions. Many of them were touching, but the ones that stuck with me the most were the requests that I could relate to such as a family member struggling with cancer or people going through a divorce. Additionally, some of the most difficult ones to read were about children who were battling serious illnesses.  It made me want to help in any way I could, and I believe there was no better way to help then to pray for them and their families.

SMS: How many hours a day did you usually spend running? Were you able to pray the entire time?

Jeff: I averaged about 35 miles per day on the road, which would take me six to seven hours to complete. However, I often ran much further, (upwards of 60 miles in a day) so sometimes I would be out on the road for much longer. As far as praying, I continued down the list of requests one by one, but tried to pray intently on every one. If I found myself distracted or needing to focus on the road more, I would take a break and then come back to prayer.

SMS: What was the greatest lesson you learned from your mission?

Jeff: I learned many things from my run and the mission of encouraging prayer. I think the greatest lesson I experienced is that we need to make time in lives for God, not only in prayer, but in listening to Him as well. God has a plan for each one of us and if we trust in Him, He will not only direct us where to go, but will give us the strength and courage to complete anything.

 SMS: Many of our readers are Catholic professionals. How do you think Catholics can live out their faith in their daily lives – both at work and home – when they have so many obstacles (obligations at work and with family, stressful jobs, family problems, etc.)?

Jeff: I believe that while our lives are always going to be busy and full of obligations, our main concern should always be in how we live. Our actions can be a great example of our faith if we live how Jesus did. It may just be a kind word, listening to someone’s struggle, or finding a small way to help the sick or the poor. I have learned through this run that everyone has something they are struggling with or something/someone they are concerned about. I am trying to be more patient and less judgmental with others because the truth is that I have no idea what that person is going through. Treating others how we want to be treated no matter the circumstance can really go a long way in showing others the love of Jesus.

SMS: What surprised you the most on your run? What stereotypes about America and Americans are all wrong?

Jeff: I was most surprised by how positive people responded to my mission. When people asked me what I was doing, it was often an opportunity to ask if they needed me to pray for anything for them. Undoubtedly, people would immediately give me a number of things going on in their life to lift up in prayer. I think it showed that the world really is in need of prayer and a deeper focus on God.

I believe the media today shows that many Americans are concerned only with their own well-being. However, almost everyone I encountered jumped at the chance to do to help out in any way they could. I was especially touched by just how much people with very little were willing to give whatever they had to assist me on the run.

SMS: You ran on a lot of dangerous roads – in canyons, on switchbacks up and down mountains, on many busy roads without shoulders while pushing your 80-pound baby jogger. Do you think you had some supernatural protection during your run? Do you have any stories about it?

Jeff: The dangers in the roads, terrain, semi-trucks, drivers on cell phones, and weather conditions were a constant concern. I felt I had to stay focused every second to ensure my safety, but there were definitely many situations that were quite dangerous despite being so attentive. I truly believed God would keep me safe and that Our Lady was watching over my every step. Mary promises her grace and protection for those faithful to praying the rosary and I certainly believe that was a big reason why I made it across the country.

I believe I kept my guardian angel very busy as well and even had a unique experience in between Bovina and Dimmitt (in Texas). I was just over halfway done with my run for the day and there is not much between those towns except open fields and the road I was running on. I happened to look back and saw a man running the same direction as I was dressed in white, but on the other side of the road just a little bit behind me. I thought it was odd for someone else to be running out on the road where I was, so I looked back again - but there was nobody there.

SMS: Are you a changed man after your run? How has your run affected your relationships with your family and friends?

Jeff: I don’t think you can help but change after an experience like this run. I feel as though it has drawn me closer to God and has made me trust even more in his plan for us. I felt called to do this run and wish to continue to live in God’s will because I have seen just how remarkable our lives can be if we allow Him to walk – or run – with us every step of the way. I believe this journey has made me a much more patient and kind person and I hope that continues to manifest itself in my relationships with not only my family and friends, but with everyone I meet.

 SMS: And, of course, would you do this again?

Jeff: Despite the hardships, injuries, and difficulties I faced along the way, the experience of the run and the good I believe it did in this world is priceless. I am so glad I did this run and would not trade it for anything. I still love running and while I am sure I will continue to compete and run long distances, I don’t see myself running across this or any other continent again!

Learn more at Jeff’s website at www.jeffrunsamerica.com and check out his Facebook page searching for “Jeff Runs America”.

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In Christ, “I Do”

Summer is nearly here and wedding season is offically upon us.

“You may kiss the cross” is not exactly a phrase we’re used to hearing as the happy couple exchanges vows.

But it should be!

There is a beautiful tradition in the Croatian culture for weddings that we recently learned about from a column on RenewAmerica. It is a custom using a crucifix that centers the bride and groom on their life in Christ Jesus and His cross ”represents the greatest love and the crucifix is the treasure of the home.

When the bride and groom set off for the church, they bring a crucifix with them. The priest blesses the crucifix, which takes on a central role during the exchange of vows. The bride places her right hand on the crucifix and the groom places his hand over hers. Thus the two hands are bound together on the cross. The priest covers their hands with his stole as they proclaim their vows to be faithful, according to the rites of the Church…. the bride and groom do not then kiss each other, they rather kiss the cross. They know that they are kissing the source of love. Anyone close enough to see their two hands joined over the cross understands clearly that if the husband abandons his wife or if the wife abandons her husband, they let go of the cross. And if they abandon the cross, they have nothing left. They have lost everything for they have abandoned Jesus. They have lost Jesus.

Read more about  this custom, how it has transformed the Croatian people and the beauty of making the cross the center of the wedding ceremony and marriage here.

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Trusting God and His Methods

God is our Creator. He knows what is best for us. But don’t you find yourself sometimes as a perpetual teenager, thinking your Creator doesn’t know best?

 

Well, here’s yet another testament that He truly knows best. Dr. Lazar Greenfield, a highly respected surgeon and inventor, published an article recently that touted the Zen-like benefits of semen on women.  He cited research that said that women who had sex without any barriers (condoms, etc.) were significantly less depressed than women who used condoms or were abstinent. Unfortunately, Dr. Greenfield resigned this week because of significant public pressure from feminist groups who aren’t happy that a high-profile medical professional was touting the benefits of male-female relations or “sexism” as they call it. Confused? So are we.

 

When married couples engage in relations as God intended, without any barriers, they get some great rewards in the mental health department. The Catholic Church has always recognized the holiness of the marital act (Genesis even says that a man should leave his family and “cleave to his wife and the two shall become one flesh”) and in her wisdom, decidedly condemned the birth control pill when other faiths were saying that it’s fine to use for contraception, even in marriage (see Humanae Vitae).

 

Which is why it was really disappointing to see a study by the Guttmacher Institute (the research arm of Planned Parenthood) say that 98% of Catholic women use birth control methods banned by the Catholic Church. 98%! In several dioceses across the country, engaged couples have to go through a Natural Family Planning course before they get married where they learn all about why the Church teaches NFP and how to go about implementing it in their marriage. What happened to them? Or their parents?

 

For those who do adhere to NFP, the benefits are immense. Not only are these couples following the Church’s teachings, but they are a reflection of Christ and his bride, the Church, in that He gave fully of himself to her, holding nothing back. Husband and wives are called to imitate that love, holding nothing back from each other, including their fertility. If used correctly, NFP has a 99% success rate in helping couples avoid a pregnancy if they are called to hold off on having kids for the time being.

 

The marital act, as God intended it to be, is something wonderful for husbands and wives and gives each of them immense benefits not only spiritually but as science has proven, physically and mentally as well.

 

Time and time again, God shows us one way or another that He knows best. Let’s stop fighting Him like teenagers and follow His will because He surely has our best interests in mind.

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Dear Gabby: Do Catholics Worship Mary?

Dear Gabby,
Do Catholics worship Mary, the Mother of Jesus? Do Catholics worship the saints also?
-David

Dear David-

Great question, especially since this is a common misunderstanding about Catholics. The short answer is no, Catholics do not worship Mary or the Saints. We worship God and Him alone. Catholics devote a great deal of their religious life to the worship of God through prayer.   A close look at what happens during a Catholic Mass will erase any doubt as to the place God and Mary holds in a Catholic’s daily life.  Here are three examples where Catholics worship God during the Mass.  We pray:

  • Lord God heavenly King, almighty God and Father, we worship you, we give you thanks, we praise you for your glory.
  • For you alone are the Holy One, you alone are the Lord, you alone are the Most High, Jesus Christ,
  • Lord, GOD of power and might. Heaven and earth are filled with Your glory.

There are other times where Catholics will use prayer to honor someone.  We honor Mary and the Saints because they are examples, a perfect one in Mary’s case, for us to follow. 

This is probably one of the coolest things about being Catholic actually. We believe wholeheartedly in the power of prayer and of miracles, so much so that we ask those who we know are in heaven (to become a saint, two miracles have to be attributed to you to basically make sure you’re in heaven) to ask Jesus to help us. We certainly pray to God himself of course but also have devotions to Mary and the saints to help us along. It’s kind of like when you ask your friend to pray for you for something. We figure, the more prayers the better and who better to ask than those who have already achieved eternal life and have found favor with God.

There are many, many saints and lots of them are patron saints of something, usually of something that they may have faced and overcome in their own lives. For example, St. Sebastian is the patron saint of athletes because he was known for his endurance (he was sentenced to death…twice). Here’s a list of patron saints.

As to Mary, she is the Mother of Jesus himself and Catholics believe she is a wonderful saint to ask for help and prayers. The Bible is clear that Mary was sinless and a perfect creature and “full of grace.” In fact, Jesus’ first miracle happened because the servants at the wedding at Cana went first to Mary to tell her that they were out of wine. Mary interceded with Jesus on their behalf and it was at her request that he turned the water into wine (John 21:1-2). And before Jesus was even born, the angel Gabriel greeted Mary at the Annunciation with the words “Hail, full of the grace, the Lord is with you” (Luke 1:28). These are the same words we use at the beginning of the Hail Mary.

Mary is the greatest of all the saints and for good reason. She gave her fiat, her Yes, to God and became the mother of Jesus and lived an extraordinary, sinless life that continues in heaven today. Catholics hold her in the highest honor and many have great devotions to her.

We recommend the book “True Devotion to Mary” by St. Louis de Montfort for a wonderful meditation on Mary, her virtues, the mysteries of Rosary, and how to consecrate your life to Jesus through her. And for a much longer explanation on Mary’s role in the Church, see this link: http://maryimmaculate.tripod.com/marian.html.

For Him,
Gabby

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Mother-Daughter Fashion Wars

“Fashion wars.”

The age-old battle between parent and daughter about her wardrobe, and we’re not just talking about wearing jeans to church.

Plunging necklines, short skirts, tight pants and cut off t-shirts never seem to lose their appeal for teenaged girls, no matter what the decade.

But parents – especially mothers – must step up and stay strong in the midst of these wars because, as Jennifer Giroux writes in her latest “Mother-Daughter Fashion Wars” commentary, we are called to “teach our daughters to respect themselves and to understand what it truly means to ‘dress with dignity.’”

Even when you’d rather be the “Cool Mom.”  Because, as Giroux writes, “Caving in on fashion now often means caving in on sexual morality later. You can’t win the latter unless you show yourself to be a warrior mom for the former.”

At the end of the day, the “proper formation of our daughters’ self image and integrity as persons” is what lies in the balance. And that’s no small task.

Read the piece by Jennifer Giroux, mother of nine children, HERE

She is spearheading the “Speaking of Motherhood” speaking tour that features six mothers who in total have 44 children and consider themselves part of the counter-cultural comeback of large families.

If you are you a mom raising a teenage daughter, Giroux encourages you to tell them about your struggles and joys – all comments to remain anonymous. Email them at Speakingofmotherhood@gmail.com.

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